Permalink Reply by Rosie Peterson on April 25, 2011 at 3:20pm I loved Ina May's new book! I may read it again and resolve some of my birth career issues! I look forward to meeting Ina May someday.
I am a doula recovering from supporting a very long labor where baby was persistent posterior. Mom spent two days at home in active labor (one day prodromal labor). Why did this mom have to have a cesarean section? She is a Swedish woman who had such a healthy birth outlook. I have to continue to believe The Farm's c-section rate is possible but how can we recreate that belief system around birth, educate women, support families if, like in this case, mom drives three hours a day on a freeway to help support her family? ends up with severe back labor and ultimately a cesarean birth?
What can I do to heal myself from this birth? I still think there is something that I was suppose to learn but cannot yet see what that is.
I feel that mom is okay emotionally with her decision. When SHE made the decision to have a cesarean should I have encouraged her to keep going, to wait a few more hours? I don't think so. She had worked so hard for so long. She was dilated to 8 and then went back to 6 with swollen cervix, stayed 6 and baby stayed at -1 the whole time.
In ten years of doula work I've rarely been as affected. ♥
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