support group for woman who have suffered a misscarriege.

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Comment by naomi on November 23, 2009 at 11:11am

okay so I left a comment on this on another blog .But heres another question. So I haven't gotten a period this month. I'm know I'm not prego I have nos ymptoms. This was the last period before we could try again dr said wiat three cycles. So do I wait until god knows when for third period or do I go for it and say forget it. It's been three and a half months since dnc only had two cycles. I just want some opions what do you guys think.I know you need time to build up uterine wall so you dot misscarry again or increase your chances. DO you need your periods for that to happen or does time it's self even without a period it rebuilds it's self? Sorry if this sounds like a dump question.

Comment by naomi on November 22, 2009 at 6:22pm

okay thanks maybe I'll look into that.

Comment by naomi on November 21, 2009 at 6:39pm

jen,
Whats the book birthing from within does it talk alot about pregnancy after misscarriage or trying again after misscarrieage. Since we'll be trying soon I might look into that.

Comment by naomi on November 19, 2009 at 12:14pm

no problem. I created the group because when my cousin first introduced me to this sight I noticed nobody had a support group for woman who have experieced a misscarriage. One of the many reasons I joined this sight was not only because my husband and I are trying again soon but also because we had experienced a loss back in aug. We already have on beutiful three year old so never thought it would happen. I dont know how you mentally prepare to get threw the first 8-10 weeks. That's going to be a struggle for me too when the time comes. I know I'll just try to keep postive and tell myself it'll all be okay eat good fods get lots of rest and hope for a good eight week ultrasound. I know a month seems like forever but you'll see it'll go by fast and everything will be fine. We're all here if you'd like to talk.

Comment by Mrs. C on November 19, 2009 at 10:37am

Hi Ladies,
Terribly sorry for your loss. I have experienced, when sharing about my miscarriage in January, that everyone grieves in different ways and needs different types of support. Thank you for creating this group.
We just found out we are pregnant again, about 4 weeks along, and I am very nervous. How do you mentally get passed the first 8-10 weeks if you are haunted with the thought of losing?
Best of luck everyone.

Comment by Brittany Tubb on November 16, 2009 at 5:06pm

thanks naomi! im gonna need all the support i can get this pregnancy around..my hubby is gonna be gone to afhganistan after christmas..and wont be home for the birth.

Comment by naomi on November 14, 2009 at 6:35am

I'm sure you are. I know things can happen at any point in pregnancy but statistically from what I've read after you get past twelve weeks and after you've seen the baby and heard the heart beat you chances of misscarriing go down to like one percent. Even after you see heartbeat at eight weeks it goes down quite a bit so dont worry and keep us all posted.

Comment by Brittany Tubb on November 13, 2009 at 6:21pm

the doctor just told me that the baby had stop developing at 6 weeks, it was still an embryo. and yes i had a d&c the next day after the miscarriage. and come to think of it the last 13 weeks have really flew by...i did freak out alot when i first found out i was prego..but with help from the ladies on this site and the support of my hubby i have made it past those miscarriage weeks. i have to go back to the doctor a few days before thanksgiving so im praying that everything is just fine when i go back.

Comment by naomi on November 13, 2009 at 1:02pm

jen,
wow that's horrible that happend to you. I'm glad you beat the odds. I can't even imagine what you were thinking when it came time to try for a baby. I'm glad it worked out for you.

Comment by naomi on November 13, 2009 at 11:42am

Chelea,
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm glad you joined this sight. I'm sure your body just needs time to heal. My dr told us to wait three cycles to rebuild uterine ligning. That way a pregnancy will take better. There is a tea organic. Raspberry leaf tea it helps strenthen your uterus maybe try that I also heard it helps in third trimesters with labor when you do get pregnant. You've been pregnant before so a dnc isen't going to cause you to be infertile you'll be fine. I know how you feel with jealousy. I'm lucky enough to have one but my friends and family members never had to go threw what I went threw and I'm glad but still why me. My daughter was premature and I couldn't breast feed to many issues again nobody in my family had to go threw that glad but still why me again. So I think it's normal to have those feelings. My cousin found out not planned she was pregnant we would have been a month apart. She felt so guilty I told her not to worry I'm glad she's happy. It would have been nice to be pregnant together. Keep us posted one how it goes were all here for you. Hang in there I know I'm trying to.

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