support group for woman who have suffered a misscarriege.

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support group for woman who have suffered a misscarriege.

This group is for woman who have ever suffered a misscarriage and need support from other woman who have gone threw a misscarriage. Maybe you are going to start trying again and have fears? whatever your feelings this is the group to share it with.

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Latest Activity: Jan 9, 2012

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How to support my friend?

Started by Bonnie P Feb 4, 2010. 0 Replies

I just found out my friend who was 9 weeks pregnant has had a missed miscarriage. She started spotting a few days ago and is going in for a D&C today. Besides just being there for her, is there…Continue

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Comment by Chelsea on November 13, 2009 at 11:11am
hi naomi,
I am glad you created this group and it is helpful to hear your stories. I suffered a miscarriage on September 12 of this year, my first planned pregnancy. My husband and I had been pregnant one time before early in our relationship and we chose not to be pregnant then--I also had a d and c. This last one was devastating, like you said. And the fear of it happening again or not being able to get pregnant again are overwhelming and scary.

It's hard to admit because I'm not proud of it, but I get jealous of those women who get pregnant so easy or without even trying ( I always like the idea of a surprise!). I can hardly go shopping at the local health food store b/c of all the women with little babies in their carriers.

We started ttc after one full cycle--which was really a screwy one right after the miscarriage. No luck on this first try after the miscarriage, but we are going to keep trying.

My sister in law just got pregnant--not planned--and I so wanted to be pregnant with her and share that experience together! But there is still time since she is not too far along.
Comment by naomi on November 13, 2009 at 9:57am
thanks jenn for joining the group. I'm sorry to hear that. Why did they feel your were infertile just because of one misscariage. Sorry that might be to personal you dont have to answer if it is. I'm glad to hear your other two pregnancys are okay it's encouraging to know for me. thanks
Comment by naomi on November 13, 2009 at 9:45am
I'm so glad you decided to join my group. I was looking for group like this and nobody had created one so I did thought it would be good support. So how far along are you now? Did they tell you what happend with the last baby they just told be chromsomal abnormalities because baby never developed. We get to start trying after this months cycle .I'm hoping it only takes three months for me too I've concieved that last two very quickly so we''ll see. Did you have dnc done? I did, I had one at 17 my choice and this one well not my choice of course. I'm worried about scarring I heard that could cause misscarrieges and since it's my second dnc I'm all little scareda nd scared it'll happen again. My dr said my chacnes of it happing are 15 percent just like the other times one miscarriege doesn't up your chances I guess but I dont know if he's just putting my mind at ease you know. How did it help you to move on and get threw first few months of this new pregnancy? I 'm having a hard time talking to family and friends about it none of them have been threw it and have kids so easy they've been supportive but dont undersand you know.
Comment by Brittany Tubb on November 13, 2009 at 9:02am
Hi!
i am currently pregnant right now. But in march of this year i had a miscarriage. I was 10 weeks along and when i went in for my first sono the doctors said that baby only looked like it was 6 weeks along...so i was sent to the hospital for blood work and an internal sono and there i started bleeding and was told that i would prolly miscarry through the night. It took my hubby and i 6 months before we became pregnant again and i'm soo thankful we are pregnant right now..bc he's a marine and was told that at the beginning of this year he will be deploying again this time to afghanistan. so i'm lucky that we concieved now since our first child is already 2..we didnt want the gap any bigger than that..and since my hubby will be gone for nearly a year, yea he will miss the birth...but its the rest of the life that matters more when ur in the military. lol. i hope everyone else gets pregnant again soon like i did...we got to start trying again just three months after my miscarriage..so it took us 3 months to get a positive.
Comment by naomi on November 13, 2009 at 5:39am
I have a three year old daughter and not to long ago I went in for my eight week ultrasound and found out I suffered a blighted ovum or what is known as anbryonic pregnancy. Its when there is a chromsomal abnormality at time of conception and a baby never delops but your body goes on believing your pregnant until you ether have a dnc or your body realizes your not pregnant and sympoms dissapear and you eventually misscarry. I was told we can start trying again soon and I'm scared it'll happen again. I still ask why me? Everyone else I know seems to have it so easy. I wouldn't wish this on anyone but I feel alone sometimes with my feelings and I created this group to reach out to other woman who might share my same concerns and can relate to how I'm still feeling.
 

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