Share 'Talking to Friends who Totally Trust the Birth Industry'

I am not a birth professional, just a friend who wants to help my pg friends.I need your input!  I know a lot of Moms who want to "go natural" at the hospital with their first baby (the holy grail!)  I also know many, many more who look forward to maximum pain relief with great anticipation.  How do we who have "wised up" through some eye-opening birth experiences lovingly approach these Moms wit…